Make your sex life better than a romance novel
Romance novels are fantasies of a regular girl getting the man of her –and most women’s—dreams. They aren’t realistic, but fun escape reading that scratches an itch for emotional intimacy and the thrill of the chase, concluding with a happy ending. Who doesn’t like that?
But they also aren’t much of a roadmap for how to find your life partner. Not that the male equivalent of Budweiser commercials and porn is better in any way.
As men and women we are struggling in our relationships. Divorce –if we even marry at all— afflicts 50%+ of marriages, and of those who don’t divorce, how many can say they are really happy? In some cases, it’s those who have no expectations of happiness who stay married
So, if you’re the average gal on the street, and you have unrealistic expectations of happiness in your marriage or other relationship, what do you do? Is consoling yourself with romance novels and the new episode of The Bachelor enough?
It can be. But you deserve more. I don’t even know you, of course… but everyone deserves more, men and women alike.
We all need to realize that the mass media depiction of romance and relationships is not realistic. For anyone.
But, instead of settling for less, why not shoot for more?
Instead of thinking of yourself as a romance novel character, waiting for sudden true love, embrace the fact that you are imperfect and so is your likely partner.
And also embrace that you are probably already in some sort of existing, imperfect relationship. Maybe you’ve been married or paired for years or decades, and you even have kids. Maybe you keep feeling, “There has to be more than this… I want more.” And you’ve given up on that more.
If that’s the case, cast yourself as the heroine (or hero) of your own story… where two people together for a long time reignite the passion of their relationship… and passion is completely intertwined with passionate sex.
If that’s not a romance, I don’t know what is.
Want to get started? Here are a few kickoff points to get going!
- Want your man to be more dominant in the bedroom? Get my erotic story on about a realistic couple like you battling things out until he finally gets it.
- Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Check out my series of 12 posts on why people like the spicy stuff… and what that spicy stuff is!
- Not sure how to even talk to your partner about reinvigorating your relationship?
Get to it… make your life better than a romance novel!