How do we keep the spark alive in our relationships?

What do we do when we feel:

unfulfilled,
disconnected from our partner, and
like we just want more?

What can we do when we look at our marriage and boring sex life, and wonder, “Is this all there is?”

In today’s world, so many marriages are struggling. We have fights we don’t understand. We seem to not be able to make our needs understood. And our sex lives are suffering: so many of us have a dying or boring sex life.

How do we make things better?

We can help.

Matchstrike Media publishes books that help you improve your life, your relationship and your sexual fulfillment. We do this through educational and entertaining stories and books for you and your partner to experience together.

Understand and Fix Issues in your Relationship

Our books are about realistic, imperfect couples just like you who are dealing with common issues like:

relationship conflict
communication breakdowns
dissatisfaction in their lives and relationship
lack of intimacy
a dying or boring sex life

An exciting, satisfying sex life is a requirement for a healthy marriage and maintaining intimacy. Sex and love are life’s great rewards.

The couples in these stories embrace their fantasies, fears and vulnerabilities, to explore exciting new horizons and find the romantic connection and the sexual exhilaration they’ve been missing.

Stories usually center around couples exploring sexual horizons together, gaining intimacy and trust, resolving power and expectation conflicts, and reaping the rewards of the enhanced intimacy and happiness of each partner by overcoming a boring sex life.

And of course, there’s explicit sex scenes in the stories… that’s the payoff, and very much tied into the attraction of these subjects for the characters and us, the readers.

Non-fiction titles discuss the same items differently, not as part of an erotic story, but as insight into the thoughts and points of view of the people involved, with concrete suggestions for making things better.

So What is This Website?

This site takes you beyond the books. It provides fun, insightful and interesting information that supplements the book topics on an on-going basis.

The goal is to provide you with ideas, insights, resources, inspiration, stimulation and community, to improve your communication, relationship and fix your dying or boring sex life.

And you certainly don’t need to buy the books to visit the site! But you do need to join to get access to special member-only books and resources or to have access to the interactive parts of the site.

About our Readers (That’s you!)

This is a place for adventurous people who want to learn, get inspired, understand themselves and their fantasies, overcome their reservations, and communicate their desires to their partners. We want to help you introduce what you want to your partner in a way that’s comfortable and that builds intimacy and understanding.

Everyone deserves a happy, healthy marriage, and that includes overcoming any issues with a boring sex life.

For partners who are introduced to our books or this site, we want to help you understand what your partner is asking for, what they find compelling about it, and what you might find exciting as well. Plus, the stories and posts give clear examples of how to bring fantasies to life to overcome your dying or boring sex life.

So What Do I Do Now?

Dive in!

Download my free ebooks below by signing up as a member, which also allows you to post comments on the site and receive updates by email. The books are:

Why Men Don’t Listen… And What You Can Do About It. My downloadable eBook on Male-Female communication and helping women better understand us men. Available on Amazon and all other online bookstores, it’s free to website members.
Story from Bedroom Secrets #6: “What We Found.” Lent their friends’ beachfront condo for a romantic weekend away, a couple unexpectedly discovers their friends’ steamy secret. From Volume 6 of the Bedroom Secrets series, this story is free to members.
Keeping the Spark Alive: Address your Communication, Conflict and Intimacy Issues and Reignite the Passion in your Relationship! 25-chapter ebook consolidating the Keeping the Spark Alive series.
Spicing Things Up!: Improve your Relationship through the Exhilaration of Spicy Sex! 12-chapter ebook consolidating the Spicing Things Up! series.

You can read about how my wife and I got into this stuff at How We Got Started.

Indexes to the two complete series of blog posts can be found here for those who would like to read them online:

I will also be regularly adding other free books and resources to the Free Member Library.

Plus those who sign up also get the two key blog series delivered to your inbox.

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If you ever want to reach out to me, you can find me at Edward@matchstrikemedia.com, and on Twitter @EdwardRyanBooks. I’ll always respond to any emails I receive.

Thanks, and see you online!

Edward Ryan